The words hung in the air, thick and cloying like cheap disinfectant, as Evelyn announced Mark’s promotion. It was a Tuesday, late afternoon, 4:22 PM to be exact. She praised his ‘visionary leadership’ on the ‘Azure project,’ a project everyone quietly knew had spectacularly imploded, costing the company a cool $22,000,000 in unexpected delays and 122 wasted team-hours. Meanwhile, your own ‘Project Greenlight,’ a lean, efficient initiative that had just quietly delivered a 32% increase in Q3 revenue, remained unmentioned, unheard. Your chest tightened, a familiar clench that felt like trying to force a square peg into a circle for the 22nd time.
“It’s a specific kind of internal thrum, isn’t it? That deep-seated frustration of knowing you consistently deliver, yet watching the accolades and advancements land squarely on someone else’s desk.”
We tell ourselves, and we’re told, that promotions are about merit: competence, results, demonstrable impact. But after 22 years in the trenches, I’ve learned those official criteria are largely a myth. A comforting story we tell ourselves to maintain a semblance of order in a system that often rewards something far more insidious.
The Real Game: Reducing Perceived Risk
The real game, I’ve come to understand, isn’t about *doing* the best work. It’s about *reducing perceived risk* for your superiors. Think about it. Your boss isn’t just looking for someone who can execute; they’re looking for someone who won’t make *them* look bad. They need people who fit seamlessly, who don’t challenge the status quo too aggressively, who offer reassuring predictability. This translates into an unspoken hierarchy where visibility and conformity often outweigh raw, unadulterated performance. A quiet success, no matter how substantial, carries less political currency than a loud failure that was at least *seen* by the right people for 12 hours straight. It’s a cruel calculus, but it’s real.
Strategic Moves
Reduced Risk
Consider Maya H.L., a packaging frustration analyst I knew. Maya was brilliant, utterly meticulous. Her job was to identify and quantify all the tiny annoyances in product packaging-the unopenable plastic clamshells, the endless layers of tape, the baffling instruction manuals. She once identified 22 distinct pain points in a single product line, proposing solutions that, when implemented, saved the company $2,000,000 annually and reduced customer service calls by an astonishing 42%. Yet, she was consistently overlooked. Why? Because her work, while deeply impactful, was largely invisible. It was problem *prevention*, not problem *solving* under a spotlight. She spent 22 months diligently refining processes, never realizing that the sheer competence she embodied was, ironically, her biggest handicap in a system that craved splash and drama.
The Visibility Paradox
This isn’t to say competence is irrelevant; it’s the foundational layer, the oxygen. But without the right kind of visibility, it’s like a deep-sea diver doing incredible work 22,000 leagues under the sea – nobody sees the effort, only the occasional bubble breaking the surface. And visibility isn’t just about making noise; it’s about strategic noise. It’s about aligning with projects that naturally garner executive attention, even if they’re not the most impactful, or even if they fail spectacularly. The Azure project, for instance, failed, but it failed *loudly* and *visibly*, offering ample opportunity for Mark to demonstrate his ‘resilience’ and ‘problem-solving under pressure.’ Never mind that my own Project Greenlight averted 22 potential disasters before they ever materialized, a silent triumph for the astute eye.
The conformity aspect is even more subtle, yet equally powerful. It’s the unwritten rule of the club. It’s about how you dress, how you speak, what opinions you voice (or don’t). It’s about not being the person who points out that the emperor has no clothes, even when it’s blindingly obvious. It’s about echoing the prevailing sentiment in meetings, not challenging it head-on, even if you have a perfectly valid, data-driven counter-argument. The person who plays golf with the boss, for example, isn’t necessarily more skilled, but they’ve demonstrated a willingness to invest 2 hours of personal time in a shared activity, signaling cultural alignment and a non-threatening demeanor. They’re reliable, not just in terms of output, but in terms of fitting in. And fitting in, for many leaders, reduces the perceived risk of an uncomfortable conversation or an unexpected challenge to their own authority. It’s a comfort zone that’s hard to break out of, especially when 22 distinct unspoken rules guide the behavior of the most successful internal players.
The Receipt of Value
My own experience trying to return something without a receipt, a simple pair of shoes, felt eerily similar. The product was clearly theirs, brand new, with tags, but because I lacked the specific, prescribed proof, the system was designed to say ‘no.’ The implicit value, the undeniable truth, was irrelevant in the face of an explicit, rigid rule. The corporate world often operates on a similar principle. Your undeniable value and contribution can be dismissed if it doesn’t align with the explicit, or often, the *unspoken*, ‘receipt’ required for promotion. It makes you feel like you’re fighting a battle for 22 days straight, with an invisible opponent.
Unspoken Rules
Explicit Criteria
Unlike the ambiguous corridors of corporate advancement, where performance is often filtered through 22 layers of subjective interpretation and political maneuvering, there are places where the outcome speaks for itself. Consider something like end of tenancy cleaning Cheltenham. You either leave a property spotless, meeting a clear, objective standard for deposit return, or you don’t. There’s no room for ‘perceived effort’ or ‘high-profile mess-making.’ The result is undeniable, tangible. Imagine if all performance reviews were that clear, that objective, judged solely on the polished surface of a job perfectly done.
The Cost of Quiet Competence
This system doesn’t just reward the wrong people; it actively punishes those who focus on quiet competence over loud self-promotion. It creates a culture of political players, where the best strategy isn’t always to innovate or optimize, but to strategize about *who* sees your work, and *how* it’s framed. It’s a sad reality that Maya H.L. discovered, spending 22 long months perfecting her craft, only to see someone with 22% of her output promoted because they were better at playing the visibility game. It breeds a quiet cynicism, a gnawing question in the back of your mind: why bother with truly exceptional work if mediocrity, strategically placed, yields the same, or even better, results?
Exceptional Effort
Strategic Visibility
I once spent 122 days perfecting a backend process that nobody ever saw, reducing our server load by 32% and saving thousands. It was a masterpiece of efficiency. Did it get me promoted? No. It was just ‘part of the job.’ But a colleague who spearheaded a highly visible, yet ultimately less impactful, front-end redesign project was lauded. I’m not saying my work was unimportant; it was vital. But in the promotion matrix, it carried little weight. My mistake was believing the official narrative for 22 too many months.
Navigating the Unspoken
Navigating this isn’t about abandoning your ethics and becoming a pure politician. It’s about adopting an ‘awareness’ mindset. It’s the aikido of corporate life: acknowledging the force, understanding its direction, and subtly redirecting it. You can still be competent, still deliver results, but you must also carve out a specific, strategic channel for your work to be seen by the right eyes. You need to identify the key stakeholders, understand their anxieties (their risks), and frame your quiet competence as a solution to *their* problem, not just *the* problem. It’s about building alliances, sharing credit, and yes, sometimes, making a bit of strategic noise, not for the sake of ego, but for the sake of making your valuable work legible to a system that often struggles with subtext. Otherwise, you’ll be stuck in the same position for 22 more years.
“It’s about building alliances, sharing credit, and yes, sometimes, making a bit of strategic noise, not for the sake of ego, but for the sake of making your valuable work legible to a system that often struggles with subtext.”
Building a Future of Merit
We need to ask ourselves, as individuals and as organizations, what kind of future are we building? One where true talent is nurtured and rewarded, or one where quiet competence is routinely sacrificed on the altar of perceived risk and performative visibility? The answer, often, hinges on whether we dare to confront the unspoken rules, or allow them to continue dictating the trajectory of 22 careers, one silent frustration at a time. The real question isn’t whether you’re doing great work; it’s whether your great work is truly seen for the 22-carat gold it is.
Are you just working, or are you playing the game of 22 dimensions?
